The man realizes that would not want to repeat the pattern of behavior learned in childhood. He is making tremendous efforts to do everything the opposite, so as not to be like their parents. For example, when his turn for help, it just stops communicating with a man, fearing that it would be morally exploit as once exploited by his mother. In doing so he can show callousness, heartlessness, and not to help someone who really needs help. If a woman, the daughter of an alcoholic, is looking for a husband, then finds the absolute teetotaler, however, most likely with a set of other unsavory or even frightening qualities.
That is, we are looking for extreme, do not pay attention to other equally important things. We attach too much importance only one aspect, while others turn a blind eye. And by creating the opposite scenario, too, tend to be unhappy. What do you do if you want to break this vicious circle, if familiar rake again waiting for you on the way? In principle, all the techniques mentioned earlier are meant to change their behavior, to find its uniqueness, its own unique script of life. And the positive statements, and work with the past, and visualization – all acts. But today I want to tell you about a wonderful and interesting method with which you will be able to write the script of his life anew. This technique is a bit like a game, but we still remember that life is surprisingly entertaining and exciting game, and our goal – to make this game beautiful and enjoy it.